Well, it can appear a harsh and brutal world. Friends that have been single for a while are all too keen to tell you how awful it is, regaling with horror stories and tales of disappointment and rejection.
How many times have you thought or heard “there’s no one decent out there” or “I can’t take another conversation that leads nowhere”?
Dating Therapy – Why do you need it?
Even when making it to a date there seems to be a myriad of other obstacles to overcome. Checklists of expectations, lack of confidence and nerves to name just a few.
- You keep being drawn to the same type of person?
- You’re the one who invariably gets dumped?
- You tend to settle for less than you deserve, time and time again?
- You struggle to trust the new people you meet?
Working on and through these issues can put you in a strong position to finally find that relationship that feels fulfilling, and more importantly, allows you to feel good about yourself!
You see, no matter how hard we struggle against it, we are attracted to what we know. It is the same for behaviours and personality traits, good or bad.
For example, if you had an alcoholic or abusive parent or parents who withheld their emotions, you are more likely to be subconsciously drawn to people that have similar traits.
It’s because we are attracted to what we know.
We can help you to identify these patterns and then break them. Then you can start to consciously choose people that are healthier for you, and have healthier, longer-lasting relationships.
We can help to boost your enthusiasm, self-confidence and self-esteem. Help you to overcome nerves, unhelpful attitudes and perceived rejection, as well as help you to let go of emotional baggage and past hurt.
Online dating will become fun, exciting and pain-free, and prepare you for your Mr. or Ms Right. You will discover that making positive changes for and within yourself will have definite results in helping attract a partner that you are deserving of and who deserves you.